Two years ago, Norman Frady was thrust into the role of caregiver the moment he and his wife, Candy, heard the words, “You have breast cancer.” During the next few months, Candy underwent surgery and treatment.
“Norman dressed my incisions and gave me my meds. He assisted me with my showers, getting dressed, and cooked and cleaned for me,” says Candy. “I don’t think he got much sleep because he was continually checking on me. However, we got through all that, and life went on. My husband is my definition of love. Everyone should be so lucky to have a caregiver like him”
“This cancer experience has made me a better man. I’m not afraid to show affection or emotions, and we do not take any day for granted anymore,” says Norman. “During my wife’s battle, I also lost my 19-year old son in an auto accident. Throughout this journey, I have gained a new lease on life.”
Both became involved in the Relay For Life of Austin County when flyers were posted at Norman’s worksite. “I will do anything to raise money for the American Cancer Society and to fight cancer,” says Norman. That includes dressing up as a woman and winning the title of Miss Relay. They have also served as a team captain raising more than $30,000 over the past two years and as luminaria chair. “Relay For Life has given me a bit of a purpose, and I feel good in my heart knowing I am helping somebody,” says Norman.
Now in remission, Candy is a volunteer with the American Cancer Society’s Reach to Recovery® program helping newly diagnosed breast cancer patients cope with their diagnosis, treatment, and recovery.
“In my upbringing, I was always taught to take care of those you love,” says Norman.
It was 12 years ago at the age of 48, that Ginger Freeze learned she had breast cancer. A lumpectomy, chemotherapy and radiation followed, and she was grateful for the care provided by her husband and the prayers and support of family and friends.
She was also grateful for the Reach to Recovery® volunteer who came to visit after her surgery. “Cancer taught me to accept help when it is offered. It also taught me to be more sensitive of the pain of others.” It was her Reach to Recovery volunteer who invited her to help in the survivor’s tent and reception at the Relay For Life of Brazos County.
“The first time I walked the survivor’s lap I was moved to tears. Every survivor’s lap since then I’ve had the same experience.” Ginger relays in honor of her mother and her aunt — both breast cancer survivors, and in memory of her grandmother and a former student. “Research of the American Cancer Society has benefited many, and Relay For Life is my way of giving back.
Ginger is a Reach to Recovery® volunteer and has served as a regional trainer for the past two years. She’s also a team captain for the Branch Bears. “It consists of teachers from Mary Branch Elementary, and our team was the number one fundraiser last year. It was the most funds ever raised by a team! We get the students involved with such activities as hat days, and in the community with a McTeacher Night in which we, the staff, work at McDonald’s and accept tips. Through Relay For Life, I’ve met such amazing people committed to doing all they can to wipe out cancer.”
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